WHAT KEEPS YOU IN LOVE

in #relationship6 years ago

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Often times, we question ourselves and really do not always know what keeps us in love, but very silly thing you might think is what keeps most people in love.

Vera is a beautiful smart young lady that is in love with how her boyfriend dresses, she is always taken aback by his great sense of fashion and most times wants to be seen around him, either to show off or to act as a predator to other petty preys...u know what i mean😉….but on this very day, vera was not with her boo, he was out there in the world chasing the basic needs of life.

Meanwhile, Victor on the other hand, had a pretty bad day in the office which pushed him to close early from the office,but before getting home, he decided to branch a famous restaurant to chill off and maybe have a great moment after 2 to 3 bottles of beer, on getting there, he bumped into his ever beautiful girlfriend, Vera. Victor was surprise but had to know her reasons for being there at first?

Saying to himself “of course she can’t just try to add to my bad day, i’ve already gotten enough of it” he walked towards her with a straight face and popped out the question, “V’ as he fondly calls her “what brings you here, thought you were suppose to be at the...” before he could finish his question that would have probably led to an argument, Vera gave him a warm hug with a deep passionate kiss, muttering the words, “you look ravishing my king” into his ears, she did this not as a show but to ease the stress she had spotted on his face from a distance, “sit down my love” she continued, trying all means not to take his mind back to the question on why she was there at the restaurant, but of course, she was there to have lunch too, but for peace to reign, she decided to evade the question and just make him feel better, trying all hard to be a good woman for her man at that moment. “you look stressed my love, tell me about your day, but before that, you need to eat something first” she called out for the waiter while he relaxed on the fur made sofa, at that point he was already getting at ease and less stressed, he poured out the horror of his day to his girl and they talked about it. A horror filled day turned to a lovely lunch date with his girlfriend.

MY POINT
Every relationship should be bounded with goals, identify what keeps you in love, is it the personality involved, is it the way she/he dresses, is it the future you see and thinks you can achieve it with your partner? Do not expect to have a 100% personality as a partner, we are humans and we definitely have our flaws and imperfections. It's better to deal with an imperfect human than to wait on a perfect Angel. All that matters is what keeps you in love and that should be your relationship goals.

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Wow.... I love the story line dear..

u know what i mean😉…

Am stilling trying to figure out what you meant ooo. 😀

A good understanding of what your partner truly wants and responding just in time would really help smoothen then fabric of any relationship.

Also even if looks are important the main focus however should be on how best you both cán help each other achieve your goals in the long run.

Vera gave him a warm hug with a deep passionate kiss, muttering the words, “you look ravishing my king” into his ears,

Wow.... I can only imagine😇

Thanks dear, just a lil some some to keep us going....thanks.

Well, I've always thought that love is something profound. It is not superficial ... if you fall in love to dress for example .... the day you dress badly ... will love you ?. It is the essence of the person that falls in love, (in my opinion) ... for example in my case, my husband and I fell in love at the lyceum ... and what did I fall in love with him? ... his way of being , his good treatment, the values in which he was raised, his intelligence ... I love an intelligent man and my husband is Super intelligent. I love how it solves things, its creativity, something I'm not very good at (creativity hahaha) the truth is that I feel we are a complement and we also have a great understanding of what we want and where we are going ... because that is also very important ... to have the same goals. We are currently married for 12 years and 2 girls. and thank God we continue in the same harmony and focused on the same goals and very much in love.

At least you picked a struggle and it was his intelligence, if he looses that "intelligence" u might find yourself lacking in loving him, soo his creativity and genius brain has indirectly kept you in love with him. Thank you @blessed-girl for coming around

Lovely story line...

Thank you pangoli

You are really creative in your post. I was made to remember something I read in the book 'Men are from Mars, women are from Venus' by John Gray where he said that when his wife said something a bit harsh or angry he would reply her likewise or leave the house and that would do nothing but escalate the matter but when he learnt to show her affection when she is angry or a bit critical even when he found it difficult to, he found out that it not only eased the tension between them but also helped increase the love between them.

Waoo, am glad i could take you down the memory lane, thanks @realcontent.