RE: Wrong Motive III, Contributed By @Olawalium
Dear friend @olawaliun
After marriage, not having children for 4 or 5 years may be a search for a happy life, because life is meant to be used for life. Although thinking about these things in society is very wrong, they believe that even after 5 years there is a special reason behind not having a child, due to which the person who has been seen with hatred is seen. Maybe a person is trying to live their life according to the concept of limited family. Although there are some cases where a person is ready for marriage but is unable to speak to his family. In our society, a person who says this kind of thing is seen from the wrong perspective. We need to be honest in the responsibilities of our responsibilities, and we must fill up only for important work like marriage, when we are mentally ready, that marriage is a great responsibility and we have to face bigger challenges. Which flourish between human life and society.
Regards
Yes, we focus too much on what the culture dictates and what the environment with what others say over what we really want. A lot of people need to understand that marriage is a private party. You will be the one to face everything alone. If they push you into a marriage you are not mentally ready for, you will be the one to suffer it the most and not them, which is why it is important to shun every word that negates what we believe in and what we want to do. As you have said, it is a call to greater responsibility which must not be joked with.
Thanks a lot, my friend.