Wow! I always enjoy personal experiences and i am glad you could relate with this.

Yes, a lot of people go into marriage with the mind set of enduring, and this makes it easy to look for an escape route rather than fix whatever needs fixing. "We" is the key in marriage. With it, you can scale over hurdles and it make things a little bit easier.

It requires a lot of effort and dedication to it.

Thanks as always, brother.