What's the best way to tell a lady you are not interested in a relationship without hurting her feelings?

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The truth is that there is no way you will tell her without hurting her except you are wrong about the feelings you said she has for you. No matter what you say and how you say it, you will still hurt her but to make it less hurtful then you have to tell her on time before she goes more deeply in love with you.

Just call her and try to see her face to face and tell her you know what she feels towards you and you really appreciate it but for the greater good of things you don't think it will be the best thing for both of you to be in a relationship, that you might pretend to live her today so as to make her happy but at the long run you won't be able to pretend again.

Let her know that it take two agreed mind for a relationship to work but in your case she is the only one interested and not you. Try to tell her not to see you as a evil person but she should see you as someone who has her best interest in mind. After saying this try to read the countenance of her face for you know what to say next and after you have told her this try to give her space because both of you still seeing each other regularly won't help her in get over the feelings she has for you. And please don't try to use the feelings she has for you against her (now or in the future).