Scary part of relationships ?

We tend to associate conflict in relationships with differences: polar opposites on important issues, differing points of view, radical positions that hinder conversation... However, little is said about how couples who are “very similar” in their behavior or ways of resolving conflicts can also experience difficulties. If both seek distance in an emotionally difficult situation, where do they meet?

The truth is that relationship problems are much more complex than “differences.” Sometimes two people are so similar that it is as if they were with themselves, and yes, something complementary and different is missing...