Yup, I had to do this and it was really hard but thankfully I had good people supporting me and things are waaaaaaay better now because of it. It's surprising how many people out there struggle to just not be kinda shitty. Probably doesn't help that what we really need to learn, emotional intelligence, conflict resolution, empathy, etc. We're just sort of left to learn on our own and a lot of people ever seem to get good examples, which is one of the reasons I try to write about this stuff.