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RE: Religious Freedom...
yeah so being nude stops lustful eyes of men? don't think so
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yeah so being nude stops lustful eyes of men? don't think so
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In Nigeria my country. I live among a lot of Muslims and their men fucks them even when they are not married to them, even with their hijabs on. 😎
That is what happens when people succumb to lust, i am a muslim man and i have not had sex in my entire life as i am not married as long as people control their lust there would be less rape and shet like that
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Yes, my point is that, wearing hijab doesn't protect a man from lusting after a woman.
and what i am trying to say is not all men are same 😅
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Yes, but it is not the hijab, making the men abstain from sex different. 😀
Where is your integrity? Can you use another form of talking about men and women other than belittle them?
What are your ethics if you have them?
Am just expressing the reality.
That was not my question.
As a Christian, Muslims have ridiculed my religion a lot of times, so I don't see anything wrong ridiculing their from time to time.
So you can be held responsible for what bad is going to take place when a Muslim who hears you talking in that way reacts back similarly? Because, after this logic he also has the right to continue with ridiculing.
Have you ever heard that this was a successful way in leading a peaceful life? And furthermore, people who clap their hands and partake in ridiculing do have loving relationships and calm hearts?
If you frighten angry or frustrated men and they don't dare challenge you, do you know what they do? They go home and take their anger out on those who are weaker than them.
Those who are weaker than angry men become angry on their part. And so you create a cycle in which anger and fear dominate. The son hates his father and goes off and messes with the world. The woman hates her husband and takes revenge in her own way.
You act as if those you denigrate have to react wisely and even turn their left cheek. I think if you really are a Christian, you should know that and always reckon with the imperfection of others. You are the only one who can refuse the given. But to expect this from others of whom you do not know what is likely is a dangerous game. You forget that you are not putting only yourself in danger.
Everything what you think and do matters.
You make a lot of sense here. But there must be a tactical move of dealing with this issue, instead of just keeping quiet, because this people tend to strike unprovoked sometimes.
I thank you.
No one uses the method of ridicule without having the impression of being provoked. The labyrinthine ways of feeling provoked, however, are usually hard to track down and play out in the subconscious and impulsive actions and language. What seems to come out of the blue for you, makes sense for someone else. But it is idle to judge what others do or don't do. It is more important to consciously handle your own actions and omissions, because you cannot govern into the hearts and minds of other people, nor do you want someone to govern into your head and heart.
There is this saying that I find very beautiful: Change the things that you can change and leave those things alone that you cannot change. Know how to distinguish wisely between these two.
This means that you don't have to be silent when you are in a personal encounter with someone - a Muslim man, for example. If he makes stupid statements in your eyes, try to figure out if there is a part of wisdom in him which has nothing to do with the topic.
But if you cannot find anything, divorce him in honesty and tell him that you have to think about what he told you, that you do not want anything evil against him and that you wish him and his family a peaceful life instead. Only when you can say that with conviction can you expect from someone that he too will go home peacefully.
But insofar as you have no personal contact with Muslims and only meet them on the street, it is enough to give them a good day and a friendly nod.
Treat your people near you well and be interested in calming difficult situations for yourself. In this sense you can become a role model in the long run for other people as well.
We both, you and I, can find an understanding. I could have been angry and tried to make you ridiculous as well. But I didn't because I don't believe it is helpful.
I wish you all the best.