Because women scream in bed

in #sex8 years ago

Last night, I was quiet in my bed reading the last book I bought, while I heard screams coming from the neighbors' house.

I was immediately frightened, and believing that perhaps they needed help I was rushing to them to understand what was happening, when, listening carefully to those screams and moans I realized that they really did not need any help: they were having sex!

Of course, however, my neighbor was screaming a little too strong, could not just contain and thinking of me in that same situation, I realized that maybe I too scream a bit too much and so I started to do some research that would help me to understand why women scream in bed.

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Depends on what?
Reading research by some researchers I have actually discovered that almost all women scream in bed, and there are several causes that can explain this behavior.

  1. Automatic response to pleasure

One of the most common reasons women moan during sex is simply because it is an automatic response to pleasure. Just like when you sigh when you sink into a hot tub, or when you eat that delicious hot chocolate pie, the pleasure you get from sex can cause an audible and unintentional response.

  1. Automatic response to pain

How many times during sex, it can happen that a woman feels pain, for example when your man is pushing a little too hard, or has touched a point that causes you pain or makes you feel uncomfortable, or even if you remained in the same long position and you get cramps in the legs, here in this case the urletti could be caused by pain during sex.

  1. Increase libido

Everyday life is really difficult and stressful and some situations can affect us so much that they become a fixed thought, from which it is not easy to free oneself.

The same thing happens even when it comes to sex!

Even during sex, some of those emotions can penetrate your brain, or you could just be overwhelmed by a thousand things to do and you are not focusing properly on sex.

The screams are the way the brain has to send you a signal that calls your attention to what is happening. It 'a shock that is sent to you to remember that "you have to do yourself" and that you just have to relax and enjoy the pleasures of sex.

  1. To make it feel good

Have you ever had sex with someone who has remained completely silent?
It is certainly not a pleasant thing and sometimes you think you have not been "good".
I do not hide from you that in the past I had a lover who never uttered a moan of pleasure; he never made any noise during sex and I could not help feeling out of place, as if I was doing something wrong or that he did not enjoy (something impossible).
What inverse happens in men who if they have a relationship with a "mute" partner they go completely in tilt!
And here I discovered that emitting moans of pleasure is also a way to reassure your partner that he or she likes you! Sex requires the use of all the senses and therefore also the hearing should not be ignored! It is important to utter screams of pleasure so that your partner does not think that you are not really enjoying what is happening.
Believe me, men love those little moans (and some even prefer strong ones).
In reality, men become more reactive only to the sound of your voice and especially when you whisper some little word "risqué".
But if you do not feel comfortable saying "piggy" words then the only way to make your partner feel safer is to scream louder (but in a more erotic and natural way, without pretending).

  1. To change the sexual rhythm

If you think that moaning is a way to express yourself without words, then you will have noticed several times that screaming makes your man's sexual rhythm change.
If you're moaning with pleasure and then he or she starts doing something you do not like, you change your moan, playing an unpleasant sound and want to tell the partner to stop doing that action and return to doing what you it was causing pleasure.
In this way you will be able to guide him on what to do and what not to do.

  1. Hurry up things

Some men are so excited to hear the screams, that the more intense they are, the faster their orgasm will be.
I admit it: I had "fake" orgasms once or twice and made some pleasant noises just to make my lover enjoy immediately.
Sometimes sex lasts for so long that you may be exhausted and you want it to end right away!
While other times there is simply no sexual understanding and therefore you want it to hurry up and get home right away!
As much as we would like to think that sex is always perfect, it is not. And here, moaning intensely can make him reach orgasm immediately when you need it.

  1. To slow things down

If on one hand moaning helps you to shorten the time when you do not want to, on the other hand helps you to lengthen them when you want your partner does not have to stop!
If you've ever had a lover who makes things a little too fast, moaning can be a good way to slow down your pace and give you more time in bed.

  1. To do it more pushed

Sex is something wild, noisy and it can be made more and more!
The screamed, strong, animal sex is even more enjoyable!

  1. To excite it even more

If your boy is in a difficult moment, moaning softly as you kiss, he can help him to awaken his whole libido and to take action! A whispered moan does miracles even before you even took off your clothes. Better yet, see how crazy you go when you cry while you're practicing oral sex.

  1. Because silence is the killer of love

Finally, women groan during sex because silence kills the whole libido!
No, I'm serious!

Moreover, it takes a lot more work to remain impassive than to be able to contain and give free rein to your passion screaming at the most I can not!
DO NOT CHANGE!

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