RE: Lets talk about Sex in a positive way
Good evening and nice to hear from you after a long while. Just believe you are doing well.
Well since am not married, I may not have much contribution to this topic.
Well to my own view about people don't or might enjoy sex in marriage are those who married because of the drive to have sex. And from time to time, I do counsel my fellow youths who are in courtship not to make sex the objective of their getting married. Rather marry the person who has the same vision with you, marry the person who will understand your feelings and sex will never be an issue in that marriage.
Also I feel some marriages are suffering because either the man or the woman have being having sex with other men or women before getting married. And those people gave them high satisfaction but now that they are married they tend not to see that same satisfaction from their spouse as they expected.
This is one of the reason aside religious views that has made decided to wait till marriage for sex.
my view
Dear Gideon
Good to hear from you. I know you come from a different culture and I admire your dedication. But I think it is better to try before you buy :-). Not to go from one to another and another, but because sexual compatibility is important in a marriage.
That sounded a bit funny to me based on my beliefs and personal decisions.
Well my mum married as a virgin because she told me and confirmed it from some books in her custody about sex. And she was with my dad for close to 30 years until his death three years back. So since their marriage was a happy one then I think I can follow that same step seeing it worked for them.
I believe your sons are doing well. I sent you a message reply yesterday. Try checking the @steemminna account and tell me your view on that.
I understand it must feel strange for you. Here is a stranger one for you: my mum told me to explore before marriage, even though she married a vergin and is happy.
Culture diversities and beliefs. I will be happy like your mum when the time comes.