Hey, I totally get the concern—had something similar with my younger cousin. She started acting real cagey, always on Snapchat, and wouldn’t say a word about who she was talking to. We were super close before, so it hit hard. I ended up doing a ton of digging and came across this blog that breaks it all down pretty clearly: how to see someones snap messages . It's not about spying for control—sometimes it's the only way to make sure they’re safe when they won’t open up.