Hush
Is there someone you trust? Who you would confide everything to and who you are sure will not make fun of you or be the subject of the latest news?
Many people probably know this from school, from their immediate living environment (family is a good number 1), work and social media is also a good example of taking advantage of someone's weaknesses.
Why is it that people take such pleasure in this? Some even love to mention that they like gossip and gossiping. At least as long as it is not about themselves. Gossip is more than half-truths. One word is enough to make up the rest of the story that is supplemented with a sickening fantasy in which it plays no role in destroying someone.
The partner appears to be number 1 followed by family and friends (whether or not ex) which should make us humans think when it comes to trust. Who are the people you can trust when (curious) family, friends and colleagues can better be avoided? Is there someone who is silent to the grave? Certainly not the pastor, doctor and police, although they claim they are.
On average, I have no confidence in anyone who promotes himself with the words: You can trust me or what about a business card that says: Call honest Sam for a car. No, thank you. Anyone who has to promote their credibility, honesty and trustworthiness in such a way is better avoided.
Is a diary the solution to express what weights on the heart? What is written on paper is fixed. It can be a good way to realize what the issue is and to find a solution, but in an unsafe living environment it is wise to remove the written word.
Freedom of speech is a great good, a phrase is, but that freedom only applies to a very small group.
Is there anyone I trust? I find this question difficult to answer. Giving trust is not something I do. It would be stupid and a sign that I have learned nothing from my life. Broken trust doesn't heal. On the other hand I don't easily label something as a secret although I like my privacy because I dislike interferences and all the drama people bring along.
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Meaning confidentiality: (Dutch: vertrouwenswaardig)
confidentiality, intimacy, familiarity
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23.11.24
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I don't think I trust easily. But I'm not mistrustful either. I probably don't really care what other people do or think. Where there is no expectation, not much can go wrong ;-))
You made an interesting remark. I had a talk with a friend (she passed away) about feelings towards others years ago.
We spoke about if we care and came to the conclusion we don't find the average person interesting enough to care about. We simply are not interested. Can be that from there the lack of sharing "secrets" (not seeing any point in doing so) comes from.
If you don't care this alao means you don't need their "advice" or support and are able to stand on own feet and make deciscions by yourself. 👍
And you are right if the expectations are low so is the level of stress and frustration.
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