We hold very similar views and I am grateful for all you do. None of us has time to seek out all the abusers. I check the SFR mentions on the Discord and often find you got there first. Some people just don't get how bad things would be if we did nothing. Most of the excuses are lame, but I do give some a chance to prove they can do better. We just get the odd one who won't let it go. I hope they find happiness elsewhere in their lives.