Dress to Impress

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A friend of mine recently told me about a date she had with a male friend who did not meet her expectations, it was her first time meeting him in person. She picked up so many details that turned her off on their first date. It sounded funny when she talked about it, but on a serious note this negligence should not be when one is meeting you for the first time

Sometimes its not what you say or do in a date that really matters. Sometimes its the presentation. Dressing and style, in my definition, are an expression of self. I would prefer simple dressing that steals everyone's attention without being loud.

However, your target on a perfect romantic date is to get your partner's heart racing and his or her pulse quickening just by the way you look, when the person sees you.

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Today's men leaves many things for granted when out on that dinner date. This negligence becomes even graver when one is meeting you for the first time. You must leave a lasting enough impression and hit all the right style notes.

The perfect romantic outfit to arrest the mind of the one who's in your sights is not hard to achieve. There are certain rules that must be followed that will ensure your date remembers you long after the date is over. If you weren't in the know, now you do, and yes you are most welcome hahahahahah.

Consider Strong colours; To be honest, this can swing either way, but you would definitely make more of an impression in a strong colour that is known to be appealing to women. The point is not so much the colour but not looking like what she may have previously pictured in her head. Elegant colours will be sure to do the trick.

Also, tease her with your Fragrances; There are certain smells that appeal to a woman's sense. There are some perfumes either way, they smell damn good. Go for something that literally screams alluring and inviting so that when you atleast hug her, she gets a whiff of your perfume, you have probably got her heart doing flip-flop already.

More so, Dress Appropriately; Dress accordingly, if its dinner date, a shirt and trousers and perhaps a blazer for extra points and if its lunch date on weekend, a polo shirt and jeans and a matching foot wear. Making excuses for the way you look on a date is wrong. So dress appropriately.

An extension of your personality is your Shoes; you would be surprised how many women pay attention to detail. You may have dresses to kill but your shoes aren't as impressive. Keep it polished, ensure that even the laces are clean. You may think it irrelevant but she notice, trust.

Finally icing on the cake, one wristwatch, one or two bracelets, do not wear rubber bands. Your nails must be clean! They may not be manicured but they must be clean atleast. Do not over accessorize, it's a turn off to some ladies. Just keep it simple and sophisticated.

With these rules properly adhered to, before you even throw a line, you have won her over with your personality. Who knows you may not even have to say much afterwards.

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 3 months ago 

Thank you @abdul-rakib

Thank you! This is a very helpful and impressive piece.

It got me wondering a lot. This is not my first time hearing something about dressing nicely not only when meeting someone, but also on a regular basis.

I am one of the few people who have a very bad habit of not caring about what I look like when I get out of the house. While I am working on it, I understand its nothing good because many people judge people on the first impression. In the first 60 seconds of meeting and they have already done their analysis and shelved you to a specific group. which grou you want to belong to? You can choose that by how you dress!

I remember one of my internship supervisors used to tell us that the first thing someone looks at when you meet is the shoe. I would argue and dispute her, but I later started monitoring what I would do first when I meet someone. Guess what, I found myself looking at their shoes all the time. As a result, I learnt my lesson.

I agree with you, a lot. We should all know and learn that there is nothing wrong with dressing and smelling nice, even grooming your self. This will improve how people see you, when you meet for the first time, or even in the community you live. You will even notice with the kind of greetings you get when walking around dressed nicely.

Not only this, but dressing and smelling well can also give you a very big boost in self esteem and confidence. Now, thats too good!

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