Do you Sometimes Wish you were Born into a Different Family?

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‎Hello my fellow steemians welcome to my blog. I hope everyone is doing well. I'm here to drop my contribution to this wonderful contest. I also want to use this medium to thank @bossj23 for organizing this contest. Let's get to hear my opinion and contribution to this contest.

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My family members during a thanks giving ceremony in church

What kind of family are you born into? Rich, financially stable, middle class, or poor.


‎I literally studied Economics in the tertiary institution. In Economics we have the rich, the middle class, and the poor. In my case I would say I was born into the middle class.

‎First and foremost my both parents were civil servants In different field. That means we were living comfortably.

‎I and my elder sibling Ephraim Inyang attended one of the prestigious nursery school as at those days. The school was owned by a White man. We use join the school bus or use a motorcycle to school. To be honest, my parents gave us a life they themselves never had. We were contented with all we had.

‎The house chores was done by a maid who was employed by my Mum. We had large farm lands, however, we were too young to understand what our parents were doing for us.

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I and my lovely maternal aunties

Which kind of family would you want—rich but doesn't give you family time or poor but gives you family time?


‎All money and material possession is nonsense if your parents don't have time for you. I prefer a poor family where my parents will always be available to talk to me on a regular.

‎Parental guidance is not optional to me. We really need if we want to grow into responsible adults.
‎Children who do not get parental control are always wayward and nonchalant.

‎My Mom is a teacher and my Dad is an ex military officer. You should know what that means. My parents were very strict and we'll disciplined. We were well behaved kids. Children born in the 90s, not this gen z era kids who don't know how to behave around their parents

‎My dad and mum were always there, especially mum, because she had more time than Dad.

‎I prefer a family which my parents can have time for me. However, I don't want to be in a poor family. I prefer where I belong, which is middle class.

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I and my Mum

Have you ever wished to be the child of a family that can afford all your needs and wants or vice versa? Explain


‎Having everything when you want or need it is a big flex. However, what will happen to you when those people who provided all these wants and needs aren't there anymore? What will happen to you?
‎Even Jesus Christ also assisted his earthly father in his carpentry workshop. Remember he was the son of the almighty God who could provide whatever he needed.
‎So I prefer also working. That's because for real while I was with my parents I started working as an artist under their roof. Thus, I could make my own money at a tender age.

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I and my elder sibling Ephraim Inyang

If you were given an opportunity to change your family to another, would you do so? State reasons.


‎I wouldn't do that. I love the family. I'm a star. Belonging to my family has taught me a lot of lessons. I don't mean to be braggadocios, I'm a golden fish. Everywhere I go I meet people which I use my charm and charisma to make them my friends.

‎I love all the support and encouragement I get from my family members. I don't know if I had belonged to another family if they would have supported me the way I want.

‎I'm so thank to God for the family I belong to.
‎I can't change my family for any reason.

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I and my younger brother's girlfriend

‎Since this is a contest I want my friends to also be enlightened of it. So I want to use this opportunity to invite them.

@josepha
@jemilatbuhari
@m-princess
@nohe15 and
@julietbella


Thanks for going through my post and blog as well. I hope you like my post. Happy new year again. I remain Tempest Art.
‎Happy steeming friends💙


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Thanks for the support and encouragement.

Keep steeming 💙

 yesterday 

I really enjoyed reading your writing. The style is simple, clear, and feels heartfelt. I especially found it very impressive that you gave more importance to your parents' time, training, and guidance than wealth. In today's era, most people consider only money as success. but you prioritized family values which is commendable. Describing your parents' hard work and strict training in a positive way shows your understanding. Being proud of your family and being grateful is a great blessing. Excellent and sincere writing, very good. 💙

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 yesterday 

Thank you my friend. Life is beautiful when you know how valuable it is. Money is very important, however, money won't do all the parenting work.
Thanks for painstakingly going through my post. That the truth of my life. I can't fake what is not true.
Keep steeming sweetheart 💙
One love and peace all over the world.

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