A little food for thought by didi_dickson
A little food for thought
I'm going to be discussing with us some reasons why I think the good girls(church girls)don't marry on time ...
WHO ARE THE BAD AND GOOD GIRLS?
In a society like mine the bad girls are the club girls, they are those that wear everything in trend( dresses exposing their body, smoking and always partying?) While the good girls are the opposite of them 😊😊...
Now the question is why do this bad girls In quote seems to be the luckiest in life and in relationship...
Now aside from the fact that most of this girls are into hookups and many other indecent means of getting money they have characters...
This girls are real,honest and faithful in their relationship and asides that they are very respectful, humble and tolerant unlike some church girls who speaks back at their men, less respect, no atom of faithfulness or honesty, who live a fake lifestyle, who are never contented with what they have, this set of girls get into a relationship without their brains but just their hearts which will definitely sink halfway and they call it a heartbeat.
The bad girls as tagged by the society are lucky because they are real and they are contented. They don't go around fighting other girls for a man who hasn't married them, and when men see this maturity in them, they become committed. Those individuals love dearly but they don't just get into a relationship with just any guy, they get into a relationship with a man with dreams, vision, ambition and goals, and even at that they use their brain too in that relationship... They never tolerate inferiority. let me shock you they also pray, they go to church... The utilize the resources tye man provides, which makes them become their own boss... That's why you see a 22 year old owns a business. Some of them weren't born with silver spoons they just met the right guy and the utilize the opportunity.
I'd advice now that if you also want to be like them, try to be honest in your relationship, live real, be humble and respectful to your man, be ready to tolerate though you need to create boundaries to some things, Men loves to be pampered and respected, stop being a tax collector alone, support the young man and help him correct his mistakes....
For now I'd pause but next time we'll see more
I remain your humble author Didi Dickson 😊😊
Happy independence to you all
