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What are you doing in your life? What interests you most? What impact is it having on you? What would you like to know more about?

 

When we land on a post, how do we relate to that post? How do we comment?

Beautiful butterflies not only suck up nectar, they distribute the pollen!!

Building friendships:

Comments can build common interests. The more we know and understand each other, the more we can relate and build on that friendship.  

  • So keep in mind, the way you write your comments and how they have impact on others.  
  • And consider the author of the post: Give them a reason, so they can easily reply to your comments. 

Not only, just that you LIKED a post, 

And not repeating word-for-word statements. But making in-depth comprehensive original comments, that show your intelligence and on how you read and related to the post. 

Also what you felt… actually helped you or was of interest to you: 

  • What was so profound about the post? And say how you intend to use it in future. 
  • Was there something you would like to know more about the topic? 
  • Remember we are talented in different ways, thus our experience could supply another facet to the topic.  
  • So if you know something about the topic that isn’t supplied in the post, please add your input. It builds on the topic and perhaps adds a missing important piece of info to the topic. 

You are an important person,

And your comments count! 

The author of the post (and we’re all authors of our own sites) need to know what interest people most, so they can continue to supply what people like.  

  • Don’t be shy to say what hobbies you have. And perhaps what technics you would like to improve on or know more about that hobby?  
  • Maybe someone out there will answer your comment and supply a solution to your request, besides the author of the post. 
  • What is your greatest desire to know about? Something that would make a difference to your life?  
  • What do you dream about of doing one day? Do you want to know how to achieve that? 
  • What do you think is holding you back from getting it? Is it your circumstances or a lack of some sort? And want to know how to overcome it? 
  • What do you like doing in your leisure time? Is it related to the topic? 

This exercise is like getting to know yourself too! What makes you tick, fires you up personally, motivates you most, that gets you really excited? Maybe you could write more on those topics yourself, in your own blogs. 

Not only that … 

Know what DOESN’T interest you?

When you read and see things on the internet: 

  • What turns you off? Why does it aggravate you? 
  • What topics don’t interest you at all? 
  • What do you avoid like the plague? What makes you squirm and makes you feel uncomfortable? 

Consider maybe other people don’t like those things either and would like to agree with you! 

Showing interest in posts:

  • Having interest in other people’s posts `opens doors’ to you. You could learn a lot of things you didn’t know before. 
  • When you show interest in other people and what their talents are, you build friendships (and followers). 
  • And knowing what interests people, you can relate more effectively. 
  • Friendly and good constructed comments build Steemit’s community.  
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I mostly like to travel in the nature

You like wildlife adventures the most? But what gives you the trills in those adventures? The story or the pictures? Or both?

Both 😀

Friendship building is so important for a man life.but sometimes we are not to done this easy task so we are fallen with depression . By the if you want make yourself is a great Person you should make a good friendship Without shy.

One proverb is "friends is need every man indeed"

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Hi. My aunt used to say, "A friend in need, is a friend indeed!"
And when we see a friend that needs help, what do we do? We are quick to help. And because we helped, our friendship grows even stronger than it was before.
So friendly helpful uplifting comments are always welcome.

Yes mam you are right and i always inspired read your blog.and learn new things from your every post.

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What a great photos

Thank you. But what interested you the most in this plot? Get what I mean?

Very fantastic writing

Thank you. But what did you find in the post that was helpful to you? Get what I mean?

Hi, @artguru.
Very thought provoking post, as always. You are basically asking Steemians to be human, honest and generous.
That may demand more than most are willing to give.
Some people are too busy for engagement or too obsessed with profit as to care too much about reciprocating.

Beautiful butterflies not only suck up nectar, they distribute the pollen!!

The very title of your post grabbed my attention. It sounded so candid, so legitimately interested.
I think we all want to be heard and liked, but most fear rejection. That would explain people's tendency to create alter egos on line.
Steemit is not different from other social networks in that respect, especially considering that our being liked or not will have economic repercussions.
What are you doing in your life?
As of right now, I am trying to survive and keep my sanity. Not the best position when you have turned 45 and have children who depend on you. At 45 most Venezuelans 20 years ago were preparing for retirement. That meant a lot of good things then. Not anymore. Now, we prepare to migrate, to start from scratch, to go through indignities we never lived as young and have to overcome when our energy and physical powers are not at their fullest.
What interests you most?
Literature, what it can do for people and why it is rejected or avoided.
What impact is it having on you?
I feel ambivalent about it. The study of literature has allowed me to see life and people passionately but at the same time with certain detachment resulting from a certain sense of pessimism derived from the very insights we get while studying it.
What would you like to know more about?
So many things. Especially out of my field. Things that will probably help me reinvent myself and find alternative ways of making a living or alternative, less fatalistic, ways of seeing the world.

You quite right most of people leaving comments never give a dam about what the post was really about. Even here today, a lot are just giving short comments, just the usual!!
Wow! You were the only one who took a second thought on that butterfly' statement. How many actually thought about spreading goodpollen' tiding of great joy? Spread the news, re-steem, etc!
And you really thought about all those questions. I'm going to write about those topics in future. So stick around and see what I come up with.

I will. Thanks.

Friendship is a big part of life. Life is nothing without friendship.

We certainly need each other. That is why, the way we write our comments are so important.

Good news! Likewise vice versa @artguru. I think, this is the most beautiful afternoon, can enjoy your post again after some time has passed to absorb important ideas from your posts that are always creative and inspiring. Thank you very much @artguru.

Does that mean you print out and file my blogs? So you can read them again, just in case there was something you missed the first time round you read it.
As time goes on we learn from our experiences, and after awhile get to a level of understanding, that we start to understand things more, when we hear or read something. Then we are more likely to have a WOW idea moment! You say to yourself, "Gosh, I always knew that, but now it seems to have such a powerful impact on me!"

Commenting directly here is the true exercise right after read your article well its interesting and challenged me if i'll make a nice reply and comment about the topic or not, exactly i am reading coming to your blog these days found out almost comprehensive great tips to write in a excellent way here, thank you for that @artguru

Oh, it's good to be challenged. It means pushing yourself beyond your usual abilities, and that's when you really learn things and grow from strength to strength. Always swimming in small pool, the fish stays small. But if that fish swims down to the sea, their whole world opens up for them!

great post my dear frend @artguru
And wonderful writing
Greetings

Thank you. But what was in the plot that made such an impact on you? Get what I mean? Saying more than, that you liked it.

Still study.And spend good happy life with family and friends.Both are more important in our life.Life is nothing without friends.Friends are more important in our life.Make fun with friends.Daily going anywhere with friends.so enjoying.Really great post.Thanks for @artguru.

The more friends you make, the more interesting things you do because of them.