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RE: Vanilla Sex to Raspberry Ripple Sex!!! HOW?!!
This is an absolutely amazing read, I am not a parent but I can really relate in so many ways. Me and my girlfriend have been together over 8 years now and we both work very demanding/stressful jobs. My girlfriend wakes up at 430am most mornings for work and gets home at 8pm so as you can imagine finding these windows of opportunity come few and far between. I've for a long time put stress and pressure on her because of this but you have made me realise to appreciate the times we do have together!!!!!! thank you
Ah thank you so much... Wow ok, so you get it too with the hours your girlfriend works.. I will hold my hands up and admit I used to get annoyed if my wife couldnt find time for me, but I really had to take a step back and look at it from her point of view... She would be up early, work a day at the hospital (she is a nurse) pick the kids up, get home, make us all dinner, sort washing out and do any other chores before I got home, then when I got home, bath kids, try and get them ready for bed... She was exausted but as you know, men can turn it on and I expected her to be the same... How wrong was I! Its all about finding a happy medium and that window of opportunity whether its mind blowing or just nice... Chances are if its been that long it will be mind blowing even if its just regular :)
You've really helped open my eyes. I have never stepped back and thought about it. Normally just ends in bickering. Appreciate the wise words pal :)
Im so pleased that this post has helped... We used to be like that, which just made things worse.... My pleasure :)