The truth is that humans are product of TRAITS AND TRAINING. So an individual clearly exhibits that traits they are born with, even though training impacts on traits. but when they both work effectively together, an individual becomes WHO THE HAVE TO BE.

Like you pointed out

I know when I read some people's fiction stories I can pretty much tell how old they are. With my background, I can definitely tell if their mother tongue isn't English as the sentence structure is immature and the use or overuse of some forms is a telltale sign, as is the clunkiness of vocabulary.

I can't agree less.

i also think that life's struggles make you compasssionate about others. when you have experienced the other side of life. you probably understand better and help others not to experience them

you think alot and i think i enjoy reading your perception about life, BEST REGARDS