Frankly, this has ALWAYS been the issue, since steem could talk. Listen, we all want the same thing. But it'll never be perfect. The best way around this is to focus on micro-communities....niche groups if you will. We have the ability to reward and upvote one another. The bigger you get, the more influential you'll become. All in due time. You'll be on the top some day, and your trending page won't even matter by then. You'll be too busy building up the community to notice if you've made it to the front page. And your rewards will be rich and abundant.