Looking for love

Some difficulties come into mind when seeking to find true love and commitment whereby letting go of some attitude so you can win a girl or guy over, but after all the processing just to be loved, you still find out that it’s was just an illusion and the demonstration you put up was just nothing to compare of it, then heartbreak set in.. reason been that you trust the process so much and believe it’s will work.. but it’s didn’t work out well nothing in the world comes so easily you need to work for it and earn it with all you got…