Thank you for the reply and the upvote. I like your hammer analogy to destroy or to build. I've heard it used to describe religion too. My children swear in certain circumstances and turn it off when it will diminish their credibility as intelligent people. We recently invited my wife's parents to come and live with us. Actually her dad passed away last week. When my wife swore in front of them, as they sat with shocked looks on their faces, I assured them that when they gave her to me she did not swear. I corrupted her. I own what a should own : )