WHATIF Challenge - Post # 14 - What if Parents Responsibility Examination is introduced?

Everybody had went through diversity of examinations throughout their life, but it is rather strange that "Parents Responsibility Examination (PRE)" was not introduced by any parties / boards / communities. While everyone is still puzzled on the objective of this examination, don't you agree that formal assessment is required to re-validate and re-educate parents proficiency in their responsibilities along the way?

每个人在一生中都经历不同的考试。奇怪的是，至今未有任何一方设立“家庭责任考试 (PRE)”。或许每个人对这样的考试存有疑惑，但无可否认的是正式的评估极需用来重新验证和教育家长在这方面的知识。

First of all, the existence of PRE is necessary to re-iterate the importance of common sense. This is the fundamental of responsibility, but most parents nowadays choose to be ignorant and this normally lead to a painful lesson. Look at the increasing rates of children death due to hypoxia, such parents' act of stupidity should be blamed for leaving their children alone inside the vehicle for long hour. And the worst excuse ever been heard is their forgetfulness. Is a human life not as precious as a smartphone? Put their safety as main concern just like how one could not leave out the smartphone.

首先，PRE的存在能够奠定基本常识的重要性。现今社会大多数父母选择漠视，看看儿童死亡率上升的趋势就会略知一二。父母自私兼愚蠢的行为是祸首之一，任谁都知道长时间把孩子独自留在车内会导致他们缺氧而死亡，你还有可能会听到年度烂借口-"忘记"。生命难道不如手机？孩子的安全才是你的第一考量，就像你们不能没有手机一样。

On the other hand, the daunting figure of kidnapping cases are alerting yet it never stop happening. If you love your family, would you left your door unlocked while driving? Worse still, would you left children unattended in the vehicle just for the convenience sake of few minutes? You may lost them forever due to negligence. Treat them as the most valuable asset and you have no right to put their life at risk.

另一边厢，绑架案节节上升，但它从未停止发生。如果你爱你的家人，你会在开车时忘记锁车门吗？更糟糕的是，你会为了短暂几分钟的方便而把孩子的性命置于脑后？你可能因疏忽而永远失去他们，值得吗？他们才是你最宝贵的资产。

PRE also emphasizes the balancing of reward-punishment scale, where appropriate approach should be adopted. Some parents had overboard on the punishment and subsequently lead to child abuse. Creating physical injury will only stopping short term rebellion, but creating a long lasting phobia effect towards children growth. Education is a long marathon journey, and every parents must learn to love equally towards themselves and family. You hardly heard anything about abusing ownself, right?

PRE 也强调奖励与惩罚取得平衡点。有些父母因对惩罚的错误拿捏而以为虐待孩子是天经地义。身体的伤害只能阻止短期的叛逆，但将造成永久的伤害。教育是漫长的马拉松，每个父母都必须学会一视同仁的善待自己和家人。你应该没有听过虐待自己的案例吧？

Lastly, PRE stressed the importance of correct safety measures. While intimate activities bring excitement, a mutual understanding must be reached by husband and wife on the readiness for next generation. There are lot of cases on abandoned children especially on young parents who failed to understand and apprreciate. They must always remember that God honor them the right to become a lawful parents, but God did not honor them the right to determine the children's fate.

最后，PRE 灌输正确安全措施的重要性。虽然亲密活动可以带来欢愉，但前提是夫妻之间必须达成共识而为下一代做好准备功夫，社会上已经有太多关于弃儿的案例。人们必须时刻记住，上天让他们成为合法的父母，但并没有赋予他们决定孩子命运的权利。

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