Hmmm. It's more of a negative view. I'll just give a scenario haha.

For example your lover cheated and lied to you, then they'll go home, gave you a hug and pretended like nothing's wrong. That hug can destroy you because you've known he made a mistake and hurt you then they have the guts to act sweet and fool you like that?

Hahaha I am so sorry. This scenario is from the story I wrote a long time ago. It destroyed the girl.