I usually try to stay out of groups -- to avoid all the attendant strife. But Steemit makes it hard to do that -- so this must be another "learning experience."

I am learning to stay calm and take things one step at a time -- which is not easy for a double Aries. I've seen first hand all the trouble that comes from constantly trying to keep the peace and hope for the best.

There's always someone who keeps pushing and pushing until the whole balloon bursts -- and all the stuff you were trying to avoid spills everywhere and you wind up cleaning up a big mess anyway.

There is such a thing as simply delaying the inevitable -- and often trying to be nice again and again amounts to that.