3 Things That Turn Guys Off!

Having sex once a week with your partner is the best thing you can ever do. Though it is believed by people that more sex equates greater happiness but according to some psychologists and sex therapists, the happiness declines if a couple sex frequently but they added that if the sex is delayed for more than a week, then happiness declines too.

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It brings us to a magic number and that is sex at least once in a week. But too bad that most couples fail to follow this magic number and end up delaying it for weeks and even months. Are you sure that the reason is the busy schedule of your husband? or maybe these are your habits that turn him off?

Such things happen in a relationship. Sometimes you end up turning your man off without even knowing that it is due to your actions. It is fine if that's rare, but it becomes a problem if you continuously turn him off with your actions. To help you understand what turns a guy off, let me share some things with you.

# 1 - Excessive Self-Love & Overconfidence:

You are married to each other because you like each other, right? then it doesn't make any sense for you to keep saying how beautiful you are. You're being approached by your husband and you end up saying that "Oh, I am a little busy right now" or saying "I don't have mood" simply turns a guy off.

Yes, you are beautiful and he knows it, that's why he is approaching you. It is time for you to stop passing such comments to yourself as it makes the opposite person feel like you're proud of your beauty and care too less about the beauty of your man.

# 2 - Being on Cell-Phone all the time:

Not only it turns a man off but also annoys him that you're on phone all the time chatting with your friends. That will definitely make him feel like you don't love him and maybe he is right? You're supposed to spend most of your time with your loved one. Sure, friends are important but family comes first.

Social media like Facebook and Instagram affected the lives of many people. It's not the fault of those social networks but only yours. They never told you that you should spend your day and night on them (though they want you to do that to make millions of dollars). OK, it may be important to check the social media accounts often but when your husband is home, try to spend most of that time with him, especially when you're being approached, put down that damn phone!

# 3 - Complaining:

Bedtime is usually the time of complaining for most women. Sure, it is fine as long as you keep the complains in a limit. It's equally important to make him feel responsible for his duties but if you suspect that he is in a good mood, then just stop complaining things.

Your husband expects you to be a bit romantic when he comes back from work and he expects even more when you are in bed with him and you end up ruining that moment by complaining how your neighbor blasts the sound in full volume and damage your ears. Sure it is an important issue but not that important to ruin a romantic moment!

Next time when you're being approached by your husband, make sure that you don't do the above-mentioned things or else it is more likely that you will turn him off again. ;)