I think about this all of the time and have no answers. But I'm trying to get better about activism and trying to learn how to get my points across more clearly, while showing respect for others (that may be the hardest part lol). I'm starting to read some literature on it - here's the list I'm going to start with...

http://www.theveganjunction.com/15-top-animal-rights-books-to-read/