THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE

Hello everyone' WELL TODAY IS NOT VALENTINES DAY OR A SPECIAL LOVE TAGGED DAY, BUT I DECIDED TO WRITE ABOUT LOVE TODAY. ITS A FREE STYLE WRITE UP SO STAY TUNED AS I MAY ACTUALLY WRITE BELOW OR ABOVE YOUR EXPECTATIONS.
LOVE!LOVE!LOVE! HMMMM, THE 4 LETTER WORD IS SOMETHING THAT IS YET TO GET A UNIVERSALLY ACCEPTABLE DEFINITION. HOWEVER EVERY CONTENT HERE IS GOING TO BE BASED ON MY VIEW AND RESEARCH.

LOVE: A STRONG POSITIVE FEELING TOWARDS SOMETHING.
I HAD TO MAKE IT THAT SHORT BECAUSE I WOULDN'T WANNA BORE YOU WITH TOO MANY LONG DEFINITIONS.
OK, HAVING SAID SOME, I THINK ITS TIME I ACTUALLY STARTED THE REAL DEAL.
THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE

THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE IS SOMETHING THAT IS BROAD AND IN REAL SENSE ITS NOT ALWAYS EASY TO DO JUSTICE TO THE TOPIC ,HOWEVER ILL TRY TO DO THE NEEDFUL .

LOVE BEING A STRONG POSITIVE FEELING TOWARDS SOMETHING MAY BE EXHIBITED TO HUMANS, ANIMALS, ABSTRACT OBJECTS,FOOD, DRINKS, ETC.
BUT I'LL LOVE TO FOCUS ON HUMANS FOR TODAY..HAHAHAHAHAHAH, GUESS ITS BECOMING INTERESTING RIGHT?

OVER TIME PEOPLE HAVE ASSOCIATED LOVE AS
.WANTING TO SPEND MORE TIME
.ALWAYS CALLING
.BEING JEALOUS
.SPENDING MONEY
.MAKING SURE THERE IS NO STRESS
.ETC
ALL ASSOCIATED TO THE PERSON OF WHICH THE LOVE IS DIRECTED TO.

BUT DO YOU THINK ALL THESE AND MORE ARE ACTUALLY WHAT IS USED TO MEASURE LOVE?

WELL OVER TIME I'VE COME TO DISCOVER THAT PEOPLE MEASURE LOVE DIFFERENTLY AND THEIR DEFINITIONS OF LOVE ALSO DIFFERS.

FOR EXAMPLE, JAMES MAY VIEW LOVE AS HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE,
BUT SOMEONE ELSE MAY ALSO VIEW LOVE AS NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER.

ITS BECOMING SO COMPLEX THESE DAYS BECAUSE MARRIAGE WHICH IS THE MOST ACCLAIMED TEST DESTINATION OF LOVE IS FALLING OUT IN REGARDS TO INCREASING NUMBER OF DIVORCE CASES EVERYDAY.
SO WHAT ACTUALLY ARE WE TALKING ABOUT HERE?

OPS! VIRTUALLY 90% OF HUMANS HAVE ENCOUNTERED A HEART BREAK ONE WAY OR THE OTHER, SOME NOT TOO STRONG EMOTIONALLY ARE EVEN FORCED TO COMMIT SUICIDE OR OTHER DRASTIC DECISIONS.

ARE WE TRYING TO SAY LOVE HAS DONE MORE HARM THAN GOOD?

NO NO, THERE ARE ALSO CASES OF LOVERS WHO LIVED UP TO THEIR OLD AGE.

GUESS WHAT? ITS MOST TIME A PERSONAL DECISION IN REGARDS TO WHAT YOU THINK IS LOVE.

TO ME ,LOVE IS HAVING A STRONG DESIRE TO ALWAYS MAKE THE OTHER PARTY HAPPY IN SITUATIONS WHERE IT SO CAN BE APPLIED, OF COURSE THERE ARE TIMES YOU HAVE TO SAY THE TRUTH OF WHICH HURTS THE OTHER PARTY. ALSO THE LOVE MUST BE RECIPROCATED. FOR EXAMPLE YOU CANNOT TELL ME TO WASH YOUR CLOTHS WHEN YOU CANNOT WASH FOR ME TOO. ALSO WE SHOULD BE READY TO CHANGE FOR EACH OTHER. YOU DON'T EXPECT ME TO CHANGE WHEN YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO CHANGE. ADDED ,IN REGARDS TO LOVE, THE PERSON I LOVE MUST NOT DRAG ME INTO PERSONAL ISSUES HE/SHE HAD INDEPENDENTLY WITH SOMEONE ELSE. I CANNOT QUARREL WITH SOME ONE WHO HAS DONE ME NO WRONG.
ITS GOES ON AND ON.

HOWEVER THIS MAY NOT BE THE CASE FOR OTHERS.

HOWEVER I'LL LOVE TO CONCLUDE BY SAYING THAT THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE IS PURE HAPPINESS.

IF YOU THINK YOU LOVE A PERSON AND YOU'RE NOT HAPPY, YOU HAD BETTER QUIT.

FIND WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY BUT ITS NOT ENOUGH TO FIND WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY, CAN YOU IN RETURN MAKE THEM HAPPY?
IF THE TWO PARTIES MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY THEN I GUESS THEY FINALLY ARRIVED AT THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE,

LET ME HEAR YOUR COMMENTS AND VIEWS IN REGARDS TO THE TRUE DEFINITION OF LOVE