I could not agree more - self love is so important. Once you love yourself, then you have the capabilities/abilities to love others. Love yourself, don't be too hard on yourself, take good care of yourself and do what's good for yourself.

People who has a mean spirited mind do not deserve any of our time and attention. Sometimes, it is a-okay to call them out by telling them this is not nice and this is mean! This is how school teachers are teaching kids these days when against bullying.

And, we need to help each other to overcome negative vibes! I personally like to give out positive vibes to overcome negative ones. It always work wonder!