When Calmness Is Misunderstood🙌

I have been observing this for a long time and wanted to write about it,but I didn’t know where to begin or how to start.So today,I decided to just start writing because I believe that once you begin,something will find its way onto the page.This is something I want to say to all those who think I am depressed just because I don’t talk much with them, or because I feel things deeply.But we cannot explain our personality to everyone.And not everyone is capable of understanding our nature the way it truly is.
Some people are quiet by choice, not because they are broken.Some people feel deeply, not because they are weak.Silence does not always mean sadness.Sometimes, it simply reflects depth.

There is a huge difference between being calm and being depressed, but understanding that difference requires a level of depth that not everyone has.I have felt this very deeply in many situations.There are times when I am calm and completely at peace, yet people assume that I am depressed. But that is not true.
They tell me to relax, not to worry, and to stop stressing.....when in reality, I am not stressed at all.I am calm because I know that things will be fine.I trust the process, and that gives me peace.Calmness is often misunderstood as sadness, especially by those who think peace must always be loud.But for me, calmness is quiet confidence the kind that doesn’t need constant reassurance or explanation.
Not every silence hides pain.Sometimes, it simply holds faith that everything will work out.Remaining quiet in any situation, not overreacting, and simply observing this is calmness.It is something that perhaps only those truly understand who have been through it themselves, or who are currently experiencing it.Not everyone can recognize it from the outside.Calmness is not weakness, nor is it emotional numbness.It is a state where you choose awareness over reaction.And often, only the person living in that moment truly knows the difference.
I want people to understand that calmness is not depression.When someone is calm, it means they are at peace with themselves and comfortable in their own space.Calm people often prefer silence, observation, and depth over constant conversation.This does not mean they are unhappy or struggling it simply reflects their nature.
Sometimes, unintentionally, we label calmness as sadness, and in doing so, we disturb the peace of those who were already content. A few words can quietly shake someone’s comfort, even when they were perfectly fine.
Not everyone expresses emotions loudly, and not every quiet person needs concern.
If we cannot fully understand someone’s personality, the kindest thing we can do is to respect it.
Calmness is a strength.
It deserves acceptance, not assumptions🤌
Do all emotions need to be loud to be real??