Don't be confused about small things

In the conduct of life, many things are often bad in the word "serious".Some people are so strict with others that they are close to being strict. They want their society to be spotless and follow their heart. They are not allowed to have any trivial things that do not conform to their own imagination.Once they find this kind of problem, they are angry, angry, complaining, and put on a kind of irreconcilable posture.

Intellectuals, in particular, tend to have naive, idealistic and lofty views on many issues.With this kind of naive vision to see society, many people tend to become cynical, full of complaints.

We should not be too "serious" in dealing with people or in the world. When we should be confused, we should be confused. As long as it is not a matter of principle, we should be confused.

However, in reality, more people tend to be confused about the big things, but not the small ones. They pay special attention to the small things and haggle over them. Even if it is a disease of mustard or the pollution of fly excrement, they should observe it with a microscope and measure it with a magnifying ruler.Therefore, in their eyes, the society is always dark, which is actually a kind of morbid.

We should "open one eye and close one eye" when dealing with people. It does not mean that we can go with the tide and not talk about principles, but we should not be too serious about those trivial matters that have nothing to do with the overall situation. We must not apply this principle to the right and wrong issues which are of great importance and principled nature.

In reality, some people blame other people's mistakes for fear of incompleteness, seize other people's shortcomings, handle them easily, do not talk about methods, just try to vent their anger for a while.Several people live in the same room. One of them often doesn't clean up and often doesn't carry water. The other person often complains about the person's disadvantages in front of others.For a long time, the atmosphere in the room became worse and worse when it was introduced into the person's ears. The cold war began between the two, and no one in the room was peaceful.

If you don't expose people's privacy, you should not expose the privacy in your personal life.People have their own things that they don't want to be known. They always like to explore other people's privacy and care about other people's secrets. This kind of behavior itself is disrespectful to others' personality and may cause unexpected disasters to others.

People should not be too close to each other. Intimacy can easily lead to insulting heart. For other people's privacy, he is not willing to share with you, so he should put down his curiosity.

People often lack the tolerance to others' shortcomings. In fact, the world is full of good and evil, and nothing is absolute.Therefore, we must have a clear and tolerant mind in dealing with people. If a person wants to create a career, he must have a grand bearing and tolerance.