SEC-S30W1: Anecdotes that teach: The Day I Learned the Value of Helping Others)

Anecdote that Taught me a Lesson.

This occurred one afternoon when I was approaching school home on foot and I saw a very old man who was having a hard time crossing this road with two heavy bags. Cars came by and he looked wearily and confusedly how to cross. At first, I hesitated. I was on a rush to go home and finish my homework. I told myself in a flash that somebody will certainly come to his rescue.

But as I continued I got the sense that something had gone wrong. I stopped and glanced around and beheld that the old man was still waiting. I was aware that, in case everybody thought just as I did, no one would help him. So about and walked away.

Will you have me carry your bags, sir? I asked politely. A smile of affable countenance flushed his face. He thanked me and offered me one of the bags. Over the road we crossed companionably. The bag was still more serious than I had meant to see, but it felt lightening in my hand as I looked at his grateful eyes.

It made us on the other side and this time he thanked me and left me thinking what has been stuck in my mind: kindness is free, but can be everything.

I continued walking home pondering over those words. This minor experience made me see the normal experiences differently. Helping may take a small act but to the person receiving the help, it may be material.

There is one lesson I have learnt since that time and this is not to grab the opportunity of doing something nice. You do not need to make a big thing but it is even a small favor that can make a person feel better and leave an indelible impression even though you are on the run and it may not appear to be convenient.

A simple moment in life as plain as it is can teach the most.

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