My friend interpreted this as a major red flag. A while ago I read something that shocked me and also helped me understand. Why don't we realize our partners' flaws before getting married or living together? It turns out that the brain in love is swimming in serotonin, and while that's happening we're not able to detect attitudes like the one your boyfriend showed.

There's a reason for his attitude. Do you two know what his childhood emotional wound is? Knowing this before living together as a couple relieves us in many ways.

Hey dog friend, pay attention to the red flags. 👀👀👀👀👀