Stuck in critique mode

There are some people who I find are always complaining and finding reasons to not do things. Honestly I have no respect for such people or even sympathize with them in any manner. A person who is always complaining about their job, or someone who is always complaining about other people or even those who are always complaining about the systems. Whenever I encounter such people, I ask them what are they doing to change things. These are the lazy people, who do not want to do anything besides complaining. Because I do tarot readings, I come across lot of different types of people and these are also one set of people, who are always blaming their destiny for things to not happen in their life and finding fault in everything and everyone around them.

There are people who wake up at 4 and 5 a.m. do all the house chores and then go to work, once they come back from work they will also take care of family things to do. The person is exhausted and still continues, because he or she understands that it is a family need. My dad was a big inspiration to me in this matter. He would wake up at 4 a.m. every morning and leave home by 5 for his work, he had 2 hours travel each way to his work by train and bus, by the time he would come home in the evening it would be 6 p.m. and he would be so exhausted but he would still cook for me and my sister, manage our home work and take care of us. Compared to a couple of days back, a person came to me complaining about his travel to workplace, which is 45 mins away from his home and that too driving comfortably in a airconditioned car.

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So many of these silent heroes never ever gets applauded, and yet they never complain about anything. And then someone who is sitting at home all the time, making the least efforts of doing any job, wanting to be in comfort zone all the time has all the possible reasons to complain about everything in life. There are problems everywhere but who are the ones who will resolve this problem, it is us only. There are no aliens coming to resolve our problems. I may be diversing from one thing to another, but I feel it is all interconnected. People who complain about pollution and traffic, will never make an effort to leave their car behind and use the public transport, people who complain about the government systems, will never make an effort to become a leader and change systems, people who complain about their jobs will not make much effort to bring change in their work place or find another job.

I believe you are eligible to complain only if you have willingness to take an action to change, otherwise you have no right to complain. It's ok to have grievances, I am not saying one should not complain, but then there is some thing called as growth from grievance which is the gap one has to fill up, and if that gap is never filled up then it means the problem is with the person and not with the matter

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