I will resteem it. Sorry to hear that you have such trouble. It seems that many people go to steemit in the hopes of a way out of a bad situation. I would love to help but am unable to do much.
Maybe go to your neighborhood synagogue and ask them for a job for your wife. Jewish people are one of the nicest i've ever met. And the smartest.
You will be just fine. Just try to talk to the right people.