The Diary Game|| December 13, 2025|| "My Sad Moment About My Grandma's Passed Away"

in Steem SEA10 days ago

IMG_20251213_070957.jpg

Today, I was very sad because my Grandma passed away. This kind of situations is truly very sad because one of my Love one passed away and we cannot see her anymore. Even if we are in the saddest situations, still we did a proper decorations so we can show our love to our Grandmother even for her last moment. As for that, I have some few ideas on how to do flower arrangements and It will be applied for this kind of saddest situations. We decided to brought lots of flowers to the market and a big chunk of styro foam so I can placed the flowers very well and well properly arranged. This kind of flower arrangement I've learned from my Grandmother and today, I will applied it for her Burial and wake. My Grandmother's wake will spend few days and her burial will this coming December 15, 2025. Me and my relatives are helping with each other doing different kinds of tasks and obligations. Some are cleaning the place and arranging chairs and tables. Installing bulb lights and wires so it will shine the entire place and gathering lots of kitchen utensil just like kettles to used boiling the water.

IMG_20251213_070829.jpg

My Mother also brought lots of vigil candles as part of traditions. This big vigil candles will takes a few days and it will save instead of hsing fast melting candles. It is made of broken glass with big candles inside and we properly placed near at the altar. We used 5 big vigil candles and some of it are kept for future use once the used candles will melt completely.

IMG_20251213_071041.jpg

Plain white curtains are also placed at the altar including some decorations like purple ribbons and flowers. Gladly my Cousin and I we're doing our best to decorate the plain white curtain and it takes almost an hour of doing it. We put lots of plain white curtains of the entire room with lots of chairs, tables and a long tent so people cannot wet when the rains occurs. Ceiling fans are also well placed on the place and some snacks for those who went to the wake.

IMG_20251213_071643.jpg

We also brought lots of powdered milk and chocos for the guest who will went to the wake. It will be expected to have lots of people come here by evening and spend a whole night doing some funny conversation and praying. We properly placed those milk at the long table so everyone can grabbed very easy while some of my relatives also kept themselves busy by boiling lots of water. Bread and biscuits also well placed at the table so other people can have snacks to eat while playing the cards.

IMG_20251213_074320.jpg

Styro glass are also well prepared at the table. This can help us save our time insteas of washing the glass. This kind of thing is used and throw that is why we can save lots of time. We decided to brought hundreds of it and we kept buying it by next day. This kind of thing is easy to carry because it is light and aside of that it wont get very hot very easy.

IMG_20251213_074842.jpg

IMG_20251213_074223.jpg

IMG_20251213_074856.jpg

To keep the place clean, I put lots of big empty sack on each side of the place and marked it with Unbiodegradable. Water is one of our problem here and we must fetch lots of water using big gallons and containers. My Brother and partner was also busy getting lots of water slightly far from here.

IMG_20251213_085422.jpg

Gathering lots of firewoods is also very important, gladly my Father was gathering lots of it. This great numbers of firewoods will be used for a few days and it contains charcoals used to cook rice. Even this will be the last moment together with our Grandma, I will show our greatest love for here. Until next post, have a nice day to all of you.

Sort:  
 10 days ago 

I am very thankful to you Dear friend @solaymann for supporting my post and to team 5. 😔