Incredible India Monthly Contest of January #2: Protective vs. Possessive!

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بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ

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༻꧂Good Evening Steemians ༻꧂

Assalam-O-Alaikum!

A warm welcome to everyone visiting my blog. I hope all Steemians are having a calm and wonderful day. I am thrilled to participate in the contest organized by @meraindia. I thanks the organizer for giving us this amazing opportunity to share our thoughts. May Allah bless all members of the Incredible India community with peace and success and countless blessings. Let’s join in with enthusiasm. Let's make the most of this experience.

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༻꧂How do you glance towards the two "P's"? Describe!༻꧂

When I look at the two "P's" I see profound life lessons in them. The first "P" is Protective, a loving aspect that encourages us to protect our loved ones, principles, and dreams. It makes us careful, that we value our environment and relationships and protect them from harm. The second "P" is Possessive. It sometimes seems harsh in its nature but it reminds us that something or a relationship that is important to us needs to have a sense of value and ownership. The two "P's" create balance in life. It is with the security we care for others and with ownership we recognize the value of our passions and the hard work. These two attitudes not only make us strong but also conscious and loving human beings.

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༻꧂Share some reasons behind the possessiveness in any relationships!༻꧂

Possessiveness in relationships often appears as a psychological form of love, but there are many deeper reasons behind it. The first reason is love and concern; When the heart longs for someone, the fear of separation or loss forces the person to control. Another reason is mistrust, which often stems from past experiences or failures, and people start to overestimate every little detail in their relationship. A third reason is a sense of security and vulnerability, which makes us want to control those close to us. Sometimes it is also an expression of possessiveness, value of relationship and depth of connection, but overdoing it can be harmful. The real virtue is to make it strong and healthy with a balance of love, trust and respect.

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༻꧂Do you believe both "P's" exist in each relation we are close to? Share some pros and cons behind both "P's"!༻꧂

Hidden Powers of Relationships!

There are two hidden "P's" in every intimate relationship. The one is Protective and the other is Possessive. They are not just behaviors. It is a reflection of intensity of emotions, depth of love and commitment. Every relationship seems incomplete without them. But too much or too little can lead to complications.

༻꧂🛡️ Protective: Cloak of Love༻꧂

Protective behavior is a soft but strong emotion. It motivates us to protect our loved ones and our relationships.

  • Benefits: It maintains the trust in the relationships. Guys it creates an atmosphere of comfort and safety for the others. It strengthens the relationships.
  • Disadvantages: Overprotection can sometimes stifle the independence. It create the unnecessary anxiety in relationships. This can make love difficult.

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༻꧂ Possessive: Ownership of the heart!༻꧂

The possessive is a complex emotion. It sometimes shows the depth of the love. It sometimes puts pressure on the relationship.

  • Benefits: It teaches us the importance of connection. It also teaches the value of a relationship. It strengthens the commitment. It creates the awareness in love.
  • Disadvantages: Excessive possessiveness can cause the suspicion, jealousy and control. It can create distance in relationships.

Balance: The Secret of Relationships!
Every relationship has these two "P's" in small scale but having them together with understanding, respect and balance makes relationships strong, lasting and loving. The presence of both Protective and Possessive teaches us that love is not only a passion of the heart, but also consciousness and responsibility.

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Now I am inviting some of my dear Steemians for joining this contest @suboohi , @ninapenda , @rashidizy , @max-pro , and @stmpak.wit .
Thank you so much my dear steemians for taking the time to read and engage with my post. Well your interest and support encourage me to keep sharing and creating with even more passion. Thank you guys once again for being part of my journey.

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Remember me in your prayers!

Take care of yourself!

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Special Thanks To :

@meraindia

Warm Regards :

@sadaf02

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