The May contest #1 by sduttaskitchen: Soul select soulmates!

بِسْمِ اللّٰهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِیْمِ

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Well guys some relationships feel special from the very beginning. It is like they were always meant to be. But is the idea of a soulmate real or does everything depend on how we handle our relationships?

Love alone is not enough trust, respect and understanding are just as important. When these start to fade, even the strongest bonds begin to break.

Today I’m sharing my honest thoughts on these feelings and realities 💛.

To be honest, I half believe this and not half. Some people really come into our lives with which we feel a strange connection, like we already know. It seems easy to talk with them, even silence is not a burden. This feeling is probably what people call a "soulmate". But I also understand that this feeling alone is not enough. What really matters is how we manage this relationship.

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For example, two people are very close in the beginning, sharing everything, but as time goes by if they don't try to understand each other, or don't ignore small things, then even that strong connection weakens. So for me, being a soulmate can be a beautiful start, but making a relationship work requires effort from both sides.

Relationships do not break up suddenly. They end slowly. The main reason is lack of communication. When people don't talk to each other openly, keep hiding their feelings, then distance starts to appear in the heart.
For example, if a person repeatedly feels that he is being ignored, but does not say anything, then he continues to hurt inside. There comes a time when he gets tired and then the relationship itself weakens. Similarly, breaking of trust is also a big reason. Once the trust is lost, it is very difficult to get the same feeling back.

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Another thing is ego. Most people ruin a relationship simply because they are not ready to apologize or admit their fault. When small things become big because of ego, the relationship slowly starts to die.

I think the first thing is trust guys. If trust is strong, many problems will be solved by themselves. Another thing is respect. Love has its place, but if there is no respect, the relationship will not last long.
The third thing is to give time. Nowadays everyone is busy in their life, but if we don't make time for our man, that relationship slowly fades away. For example, if one is busy during the day but has a heart-to-heart with his partner at night, that keeps the relationship strong.
The fourth thing is patience and understanding. Every human being is not perfect, everyone has some weaknesses. If we react to everything, the relationship will not work.

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In the end, I will just say that relationship is not about words, but about action. Little care, attention and true intention make any relationship beautiful for a long time 💛

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