SEC17 WK:#3: large and small families, likes and dislikes

in Steem Kids & Parents19 days ago

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Have you by chance ever wondered what it would definitely be like to have a big family with a whole lots of brothers and sisters running around the premises, or probably maybe just a small, cozy family with just only a few siblings? It's a very much tricky question ❓ reasons because there are so many factors to consider.

  • Though Some people love the idea of a big, a very bustling household, while also others prefer the peace and there too the quietness of a smaller family.

('So, if it were up to you, which would you choose?')

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Choosing Between Large and Small Families:

At these point If I had to make the "choice", I would indeed probably lean towards having a small family. Why? Well I know this question will come, for one thing here, it definitely means more attention from my parents and guardians around me.

With the fewer siblings here, to my sense there's less competition for their time and the affection. Plus too, it's very much easier to get to know each other really too well when there aren't so many people around the premises. ("To align this, we're only 5 in my family, my parent and we the three kids they bear.")

  • But "hey" , that's only just my preference. I acknowledge too well that Some people thrive in big families, loving the very constant hustle and bustle, the so noisy dinners, and the endless fun of having lots of siblings to play with and reciprocate.
Likes and Dislikes of Large Families:

Let's pretty talk about the likes alone first.
In my terms, One of the very best things about one having a big family is that possibly there's always someone around to talk to or definitely hang out with. So Whether it's in playing games, sharing secrets, or maybe just goofing off, but I know too well there's never a dull moment at this premises.

  • Plus, the family gatherings are definitely like mini-parties, with a plenty of laughter and love to go around them all.

  • "But too well it's not all rainbows and sunshine".
    The Large families can so also come with their fair share of the challenges. For one thing, the space can be so tight, especially here if you're sharing bedrooms or bathrooms. And then also there's the noise level at pick. With so much many people under one roof here, it definitely get pretty loud at times.
    And Plus, there's the very issue of sharing. Whether it's the toys, clothes, or attention, you so have to learn well to share pretty much everything when you're part of a any big family.

Likes and Dislikes of Small Families:

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Now also, let's thrive in talking about the small families.
One of the very biggest perks is that you're often used to getting more one-on-one time with your parents perfectly. They will always have more time and the energy to devote to each child all necessary, which can definitely make for a really "close-knit family bond. Plus", there's always more of the space to spread out well as you wish and also do your own thing as you want them, maybe it's in the joy of playing in your own room or too in enjoying a quiet moment of the solitude.

  • But the small families is aren't without their drawbacks either. For one thing, there's always less built-in entertainment. With the fewer siblings like mine around, you definitely might find yourself getting bored more easily or wishing for someone to likely play with so citation from myself which my siblings are way so younger than myself.

And then too there's the pressure to perform almost perfectly well. In any small family, there indeed can be a lot of focus on each of the individual child's achievements and the successes, which to the kids can sometimes feel like a lot of pressure to live up to.

What Informs My Decision:

"So acknowledge this, what would really inform my decision if I had to choose between a large or small family?"

Well, ultimately to me, it would come down to what really feels right for me and as well my dear future family. I so would consider things like my own personality, lifestyle preferences, and how much support I think I would need from my family as a whole.
As well as I know there's no one-size-fits-all answer, and so what really works for one person might not work for another there. But again whatever choice I made, I understand and indeed know it would be with love and a very much careful consideration.

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Conclusion

In the very end here, whether you out there prefer a "large or small family", please what really matters most is the dear and unpleasing "love and connection* you'll so share with your family members.

  • Whether there you're part of a big, noisy clan or maybe a small, quiet one like mine, i only acknowledge that it's the bond you share that truly makes a family a special one. So please, whatever your family looks like, try cherish it, because family is one of life's greatest gifts.

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 17 days ago 

the family gatherings are definitely like mini-parties, with a plenty of laughter and love to go around them all.

Your thoughts are really impressive. My friend, you have discussed all the likes and dislikes in a very well manner. A very nice post from you 😊. I wish you may get selected this week. Good luck for the challenge 😄.

Thank you so much dear. May God bless you with good health 😇

 17 days ago 

Thanks so much for engaging with me.

 17 days ago 

I enjoyed your write-up there is always a connection between both families whether small or large, but one thing may be lacking in a larger family, the ability for everyone to understand each other. They may only come closer if they have a get-together so the bonds between them may not be strong compared to a small family. You chose a small family and I would have done the same good luck

 17 days ago 

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 18 days ago 

You said that the very best thing about having a big family is that you will never lack someone to talk with, and if they are have a family gathering, a big family gathering will look like a mini-party with laughter everywhere.
In a large family you will also share everything you have, ranging from toys, bedroom even food either big portion or small portion, you must learn how to share.

I enjoyed reading your post because you have explained everything well and I wish you success.

 18 days ago 

Thanks a lot dear for engaging

 18 days ago 

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Small families are not per se cosy and big families not a burden. It all depends on how parents raise their children, if they are present, interested at all. Many parents are not as soon as a child turns 4 years old or visits school.

Even a full time parent can not be mentally present 24/7. Children always need attentiin no matter theur age and a mother can never be tired, ill or have a second for herself.

I made the choice years ago (5 children + 11+ foster children) and if today I would not start a family at all.

 16 days ago 

Thanks for engaging, I really appreciate.

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