Thank you so much momma @ruthjoe.
People tend to confirm to irrational things these days tagging it as normal, this topic was all over social media some days ago and when I shared my thoughts, it was as if the house will be set ablaze but that didn't make me to deviate from my opinion.

I stand and will continue to stand on grounds of being a helpmeet rather than taking on the roles of a provider because sharing bills 50/50 with a man automatically makes you the man of the house too and two captains can't be in a ship.