Hello
I just read your content..this is my opinion, you can decide to take it or leave it, it's your choice.

Seriously, I know that many will tell you to forgive but this is beyond forgiveness..You can forgive him and let him go his way. Nothing more.

What he did was a red flag. He would have even had sympathy that you were to undergo a surgery, and even if he doesn't have the money to give you, hanging up the call was out of it.

He doesn't trust you..what is the probability that he would repeat the same action? Relationship is not a do or die course. If you are sure you don't want him then stand your ground with your family besides they are not in it with you and if the relationship eventually leads to marriage, they won't go in there with you.

You are a Nigerian and you must have heard stories of assaults happening in relationship and marriage.

There are things you forgive and go back to but there are things you forgive and move on with your life. The choice is your!

I just feel a man who has trust issues, brash or harsh with words, unforgiven and non empathetic is a no no! Because these ingredients birth more things like physical assault, hostility and the rest.