It was interesting to read your article. I have been in many types of relationships in my life. Regardless of the type, all relationships should at least include respect in both directions. Of course, this is not always the case. At that time, it is up to us where we set the boundaries. Whether we will tolerate certain things or not. This also sets a "price" for how others see us. When I look back, especially since I have always been kind to people and tolerant, many have allowed themselves to be disrespectful. As much as I allowed. It really depends on where you set the boundary for yourself. That is why they say that you have to love yourself. You only allow others to treat you as you allow yourself. The more you love yourself and treat yourself well, the less you will let others treat you worse. Everyone sets this boundary for themselves. I can personally say that all relationships that were not healthy have fallen apart. Colleagues, friends, partners, associates... it doesn't matter. When it comes to an intimate relationship, it's important to be able to relax and feel safe with someone. If that feeling isn't there, every minute of wasted time is a waste. Looking back, how much time I spent on people who weren't worth my presence... oh, if only I had known sooner. But it's never too late. Years ago, I purposefully changed my environment, I moved just far enough away to see which of my acquaintances and friends would visit me. Believe me, the number is small. But the ones I'm in touch with today are the right ones. Quality is better than quantity. As for the opinions of your family... unfortunately, you will live your life. Only you know your inner self. Respect yourself and love yourself. People come and go in life. But you will always live with yourself. For that reason alone, love yourself and don't let anyone make a fool of you.