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RE: Leave or Stay? What's Your Take On This??
Hi Grace, greetings from Germany...! Jealousy exists here too – whether justified or unjustified. Personally, I consider it a completely unnecessary emotion; no one belongs to anyone else, no one has a claim on another person.
Your boyfriend didn't trust you in a certain situation. Whether justified or not, isn't trust the basis of a good relationship? It seems to me that there was something else going on...
On the other hand, people make mistakes and forgiveness is not the worst reaction. Can you forgive him? Or can you expect new jealousy at the earliest opportunity?
How does the rapprochement feel for you? Do you trust HIM now?
As you can see, I can't give you any real advice, just a little life experience... ;-)) All the best!
Hello,
You're not far from the truth, jealousy was another thing I battled with and I'm not ready to go through that lane anymore.
I've forgiven countless times even when I'm not at fault but right now, I want to prioritize my mental health because it's at stake. I can't go back there, it wasn't appealing but my nightmare right now is my family who wouldn't let me rest.
I so much appreciate your input, thanks for your time and kind words.