Last Chat On The Deadbed, An entry for @wakeupkitty's contest
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Hello Steemia all around the world. May happiness and blessings always be with you.
Steemit is a good habitat in running a social media. We meet many good people. We are guided to do good things, even if we are not good at writing will be motivated and invited to then be good at writing. There are always people like @wakeupkitty who can always spark people to participate in writing.
This time she invites us to write about conversations before death as a response to @anassharkawy's post. She created a contest just by looking at interesting posts and this is an opportunity for all of us to then actively comment so that one of the responsibilities as a curator will also be easier to get good comments. always be victorious @wakeupkitty with your brilliant ideas.
Death is one thing that is certain and cannot be avoided. When death comes no one can delay or forward death. Everyone already has their own destiny. It remains to be seen what kind of death we will experience and will follow. Or will there be a conversation before and after death?
And of course everyone hopes that death will pass peacefully, although not everyone can do it for various reasons. They know when death comes and then there were no one so if they can chat of course they will be happy they died while they were happy because they were having fun chatting. Although we also know that let alone chatting, to say a little or even for a short time must be very difficult.
If they are Muslims who believe that they will be asked by angels and will be tortured if they cannot answer questions, then they will ask the family to wrap their bodies in old cloth so that the angels when they come can be avoided.
"I have been a long-time resident of this grave. Look at my shroud, it's worn out. It's impossible for me to be a new resident."
Then the angel leaves him without asking any questions.
Or ask his brother to arrange for someone to wait for the grave for three years without stopping because they know that the angels only come when the funeral makers have all gone home. And after three years, when the angel comes, he can say the same thing because he has been a long-time resident of the grave.
When death comes, of course we will regret many things, especially those who die by suicide. There are so many beauties and happiness that we may not have had the chance to enjoy or do. So many good things that have not been carried out certainly make the dead regret it.
In fact, if he is already in the grave, he will ask - if given another chance by God - for a second chance to live in the world to fulfill his life with goodness and beauty. If there is a button that can return to the previous 29 years, of course it will be a very long-awaited life. He does not want to waste time just to do things that damage or trouble other people. He definitely wants to achieve his dreams, achieve success and make his family happy.
When death approaches, they will no longer care about other people's opinions. They only want to pass through the gates of death well. They want to reach heaven which is promised by many religions. All opinions will be accepted as a passing wind because the opinions or judgments of society will not affect his life after death. Maybe what is difficult is when you know that his judgment will affect the family left behind.
Never want to go far without family. Will accompany when the children are having fun. Enjoy free time with family. The thoughts and memories will intertwine in the head. Or there is also the awareness that this life is just a change. We live to replace other people who have died. We occupy the house that was previously abandoned. Likewise, when we die we know that we will leave our wife and will find a replacement husband. The house we leave behind will be replaced by its owner and occupants. And so on in other things.
That way we know that no matter how rich a person is, he will not bring the possessions he owns in death. No matter how much the latest Mercedes edition, a contract worth billions, a villa or anything that was just bought even one second before death came, it will not be possible to bring it. All possessions will be left like flowers scattered on the grave. There is nothing important that is included in death even though the property is buried together like when Qorun (the story of a rich man who did not believe and died buried with his property) died.
When you die, there may be people who come or accompany you to the grave, including friends, colleagues, relatives and family. Some will express their condolences, then comfort the family. Or there are friends who say tell wife to be patient.
"Be patient and calm your heart. Don't be sad all the time. Your husband has calmed down in the afterlife. You and your children must be strong. The children are grown up, only the youngest is left. If you have any difficulties, come to me. I will be ready to help. I will always be ready to be your support."
Sadness may occur in a few days, weeks or months. However, all will be erased by various other events. There will be joy that replaces sadness. In fact, in a few months a friend who comforted when her husband died then proposed to the widow to be his wife.
"Don't be alone for too long. Because being alone will be hard. Temptations will come, gossip about your loneliness is not good, especially if you often go out. It would be better if you had a new partner. And I would be a reasonable choice. Marry me."
Maybe there will be memories left in the form of photos or stories about us when we die. For that, we really need to build a life with goodness so that when we die there are memories about us to tell.
It would be bad if we were remembered for our bad qualities and crimes. Or people choose not to tell stories rather than spread bad stories.
Thak all my writing this time to take a part in the contest. It will be include to freewrite
Prompt : and then there were no one
I invite @bahrol, @cicisaja, @almaguer, @edmund.nef to share about the opinion
Thank you for stopping by and reading my post. i hope you enjoy it.
Warm regard from Indonesia
@rokhani
Uhhmm.. goodness, i thought I'd be hearing this when you're on deathbed.. that means you're not dying 😁🤗 let's go out and have fun!
matur nuwun for commenting and then we know that we still alive and use our imagination to create something.
we jnow that imagination is wilder and then we find many ideas, even about death without having experience in death.
once more matur tengkyuh....
salam dari Klaten Jawa Tengah
The secret of death, kita sudah dilengkapi dengan informasinya sebelum lahir 😁 tapi setelah lahir kan kita lupa 😉 that's why we have the imagination, I believe that it was installed in our bones
Yes I egree that our life has noted may be in our bone or the others, but We have learned theat the bigges cloud is LAUHUL MAHFUDZ, which have meaning wide bone that can be written. As we know that this bone full of notes of all the creature include human from the birth to the death has notes with all the journey in our life.
We have made a appointment before our birth when God give us life at the beginning we are asked who is the God then we are given about everything.
Unfortunately, we life with emotion greed and all of of them make us forget to the appointment. And then we often shocked when some tning bad happen to us.
in my opinion imagination come from our thought and our memory and also our desire and then make our brain walk to the way to reacj the dn it failde our imagination will work again and try to reach again
KETOKE NGONO, YA MBUH YANG BENARNYA NDI...
Ingat De Javu? Hehe.. kok rasa2nya pernah ke sini, ketemu si anu, makan itu, sedih begini... Lhaa kan sudah ditunjukin duluan 😉
Ya kita sering mengalami pengembalian memori dalam benuk dejavu. atau jangan-jangan saat saya berkomentar begini tiba tiba akan teringat pernah berkomentar yang sama..
Yes... I agree banget deh...dan seneng banget dikeontari para senior dan banyak belajar di Steemit.
betapa indahnay jika semua orangbterlibat dalam obrolan hangat nggih
what shall I say... you took the words right out of my mouth....
https://steemit.com/hive-161155/@ty-ty/spm1ow
Do you say all this? I wonder who asked you those questions or are you just in bed and sharing all your thoughts?
I tell you if I commit suicide I don't have regrets and I doubt most of who do have regrets. They will feel lost, are abandoned, die lonely, were bullied, and never understood, like, in high debt and in high need of a listening ear. So this was the best solution since no one helped them. None of all those who preach love and understanding but watch how you are raped, beaten up, you name it.
So @rokhani you are in bed dying, and you like to have chat with whomever stops by? You don't want some privacy to think instead of people nagging and asking you questions? It sounds like a burden to me especially if I am in pain. It's very hard to concentrate on pain if people are complaining and fighting at the side of your bed about unpaid bills, how they should survive, if you can give the pin of your debit card and who will pay the rent for the house, the insurance of the car and why A should share the TV with B while C receives the bike and books.
It sounds like a horror to me, even without fighting people to see a crowd gathered around my bed waiting till I a m dead. They are bored because it takes a long time and they have better things to do like eating out, watching a series and posting on Steemit, trying to win a nomination and see if the wallet has enough to powerup or what if in the worst case scenario a power down is needed to burn me since a grave is way too expensive. So they all get nervous are whispering, checking their phones since life goes on, blaming another while it takes so long and nobody puts the kettle on to make some tea.
Of course some feel sad, others are busy and they tell you it doesn't fit them if you die right now since you promised to give 20 bucks for the birthday of Tim, Jake and Susy and the cake should be paid and next a holiday was planned on Bali which can't be cancelled for a funeral.
While you are dying the last thing you can do is trying to make others feel better and you can't stop thinking: who will comfort me during those last miserable minutes I spend in this terrible bad with a bumpy mattress and itchy blanket. I stink and the mosquitoes and flies doesn't make dying easier.
So, now it's your turn, my dear friend. Write a comment and say how annoying it is if you are dying and others attract all the attention.
Are you saying that if you are wrapped in smelly old clothes there's no need to answer and you can die and be death in peace? If that is the case why should one live a honest life?
Too late for answering. I am so sorry
I don't know if it will stay out of my mouth. What I know now is that I am instilling awareness that in time we will die. We need to instill in my mind that what I say is true and can be a lesson in my life.
For me, what I wrote is a form of honesty that may be challenged by many. However, if we think more deeply, hopefully we will find the meaning of what I mean.
The question of whether I will be rich when I am on the death bed, of course I cannot say now because we are still alive and living life.
Eres un gran comunicador. Me gustó tu libr epensamiento en acción. Sigue escribiendo. Un saludo.
Thank you so much for your kind words. Keep healthy and be happy