Yes, I visited Nihon once many years ago. I really wish I could go back because I’ve learned so much more about the culture since I returned.

When I was working, I loved buying little gifts whenever I saw something special not for an occasion, but just because.

I’d pick up souvenirs on trips or treats for friends, or a little something for a friend's child, with no pressure at all.

But I agree, in the real world, gift-giving can sometimes feel like a series of little bribes or connections we have to maintain. Feels like a burden to me.