I really appreciate your point of view and I must say we can't really agree on this topic because we have different experiences. It may work out good for some people but not everybody.

But I also want to add this it's not proper for you to subject the woman to the family acceptability.
Once you made up your mind on who you want to spend your whole life with, the family should have accepted her, so what's the point of her living for a couple of months in the family house because being certified as someone that won't spoil the family's name except it's like a ritual