RE: Open Happiness (Week 3): Touching lives through Selfless Giving!
For me before I will get married my wife in question will have to stay with my parents for little time, reason been that
My parents has to decide weda she is fit and good for the benefit of the entire family, not tomorrow, Love Love Love you end up bringing someone that will ruine the good name of your family.
To answer your question straight boss @focusnow I think *yes
Reason been that the man's parents need a total acessment regarding the character of the girl.
why I will commend it
it will limit the girls going out and coming in. If she realizes that she is staying with her husbands parents trust me she will comport herself.
if she has the spirit of cheating it will be minimized and she will have to repent and even give her life to #christ.
it will make the girl to know and become conversant with her husbands siblings.
Any observation to someone that did it
Yes my elder brother when he got married he has already built his own personal house but he brought his wife to come stay in our family house, we really kept a close eye on her. Women of nowerdays are really something else.
@kingcent i think getting married means you have acknowledge the you are now a man. But you do and still let you parents to make the decision of wether she is good enough for you will only mean you are not ready. As am man you need to make you own decisions.
Rmemeber what is common in life is change, the woman might change tomorrow, so you need many heads to oversee things that ordinary you can't comprehend.
I really appreciate your point of view and I must say we can't really agree on this topic because we have different experiences. It may work out good for some people but not everybody.
But I also want to add this it's not proper for you to subject the woman to the family acceptability.
Once you made up your mind on who you want to spend your whole life with, the family should have accepted her, so what's the point of her living for a couple of months in the family house because being certified as someone that won't spoil the family's name except it's like a ritual
Don't you think staying with the family will make her know more about your family members and perhaps limit some negative things she must have had the intensivity of doing.
Remember no love last you see couples ooh they love themselves like mad but in the end they break up
Hahahahahahahahaha. This are really some point. The part that says that women of nowadays are something else is really funny. But do you think that staying with the family will not cause any personal problems?
Hahahahaha trust me boss it won't instead it will shape the woman in such a way that she won't misbehave. If too many eyes are looking up to you, trust me you will amend your ways
For me my parents comes First
If the wife has any bad character, staying with her husbands parents doesn't solve it. She may pretend when she's in their midst but secrets never stay hidden.
Trust me the woman can't pretend forever, see my point staying with you imagine the woman has bad character when you guys where dating she will pretend but if she stays with your parents that bad attitude won't be hidden it will be expose.
Remember if you marry someone you marry the family. Family first.
Will she stay with the groom's parents forever? Some people are great actors