My yellow program the day before the wedding.
Assalamu Alaikum friends, how are you all, I am also fine, Alhamdulillah. I could not sleep properly last night, so I got up early in the morning. Mom also got up early in the morning. I helped mom prepare breakfast, mom asked me to eat because I did not eat properly at night, I told mom that I would eat later. I cleaned all the rooms well, but in the meantime, the power went out again. I helped mom with some outside work, then when the power came back, I gave mom a dry spice blend, ginger, and garlic and gave her a bath. In the meantime, guests started arriving at our house one by one.
I serve breakfast to the guests. In the afternoon, the decoration people come, but I don't want to leave the house. I stay inside. Mom tells me who is there to feed them, so I feed them. Then in the afternoon, I prepare the garlands, flower ornaments, and food for my turmeric by myself. I ask my brother to bring flowers to make flower ornaments, and my brother brings me flowers.
While making the flower jewelry, everyone says it is beautiful. When everything is ready, I let Ayat Mani get it ready and then I get ready myself. In the meantime, my sister comes from Dinajpur and hugs me in advance and kisses me on the forehead, saying, Masha Allah, I look very beautiful. Although everyone is happy in the house, there is also a hidden pain that no one lets me understand. Everyone is holding themselves very tightly in front of me. When everything is ready, my father and mother take me for the turmeric and send me to the turmeric stage with prayers.
All the girls take me home. My parents first touched me with yellow. During the Halul Chowan, my father's eyes were tearing up. When tears started flowing down my father's eyes, my mother gave me a yellow touch and went to the room to cry. My sister, brother-in-law and I all gave me yellow touch one by one. Everyone was very upset. Annoor came to give me yellow touch and hugged me and started crying. I couldn't control myself anymore and I started crying too. In fact, I have to leave my family and go to a new environment where everyone is a stranger to me except my life partner. I will go among completely new people the next day.
After crying, I explained to her. Annoor can't cry at all, but she is crying for me because her aunt Moni is leaving her. Annoor - Aayat, from the time they were little to the time they went out with me, I did everything for them with my own hands. Even when they were little, they used to go out with me, not to their parents. To them, I feel like their mother. When everyone finished giving turmeric one by one, everyone danced and sang together for a while. Then everyone ate. It's past 1 am and I don't change, my brother and sister's sister-in-law will come, so at around 1.30 am, my brother comes from Dinajpur and my sister's younger sister-in-law comes from Dhaka. They come at 2.30 am, so I change. I sleep at around 4 am. I hope everyone is well today and pray for my family. Allah Hafez ❤️
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