My wedding day on January 30th is the most memorable day of my life.
Jumma Mubarak to everyone today. I slept at 4 last night and woke up at 6 this morning. All the houses are full of our guests. My father kept some money in my pocket and asked me to give him that money in the morning. I took it out. Then I took everyone out one by one and cleaned all the rooms. In the meantime, the cook came to cook. He cooked for my brother's wedding. The cook uncle said, "How are you, mam?" I greeted him and said, "Alhamdulillah, I am fine." Mom told me to have breakfast but I didn't feel like eating. I told mom I will eat later. In the meantime, my sister said, "Take a quick bath." Mom and dad poured water on my head while I was taking a bath, and then I took a bath. After taking a bath, my sister dried my hair with a hair dryer. Dad fed me once in the meantime, but for some reason I couldn't eat anything. I told my mother, just make tea. My mother made tea with her own hands and gave it to me first. I had tea and ironed my father and brother's Punjabi. In the meantime, my son-in-law called me and I talked to him for a while. Aunty from the next house came to meet me. After chatting with Chama for some time, they had tea and left.
At 12 o'clock, my sister took me to the parlor. I had made a booking in advance at the parlor. It took me 2 hours there. After getting dressed, I came home by rickshaw. In the meantime, all the guests from outside came and ate. I went to the room and sat down and everyone came one by one. In the meantime, Yoono from father's office came with his family. When they sat down to eat, I held their baby in my lap for a while, and the baby was sleeping in my lap. After they had eaten, I chatted with them for a while. They took some pictures with me. They blessed me and said goodbye to my family and wished me well as I began my new life.
When they left, the parents all sat down to eat, but I felt like I could eat, so I didn't eat anything. Mom Seeing me dressed as a bride, I burst into tears. Seeing my mother crying, I couldn't control myself anymore. I also hugged my mother and started crying. My father put his hand on my head and said, "Mom, don't cry." Meanwhile, my father also had tears in his eyes. My sister came into the room and was crying. My brother was comforting everyone. In the meantime, my aunt came, aunt and sister hugged me and started crying. My brother made everyone sit down and then gave them food. Everyone in my family was very sad because the beloved person in their family was going to the next house today.
A girl's life is really difficult, growing up in one family and having to leave that family for another. Today I am getting married to the person who came into my life 8 years ago. Today I am going to have that person as my life partner after 8 years. These 8 years were easy for us, but after many things, this 8-year relationship is going to be fulfilled today.
My son-in-law and all the family left their homes after 3 pm and they reached us here after the Maghrib call to prayer, they actually invited Annoor and his uncle with flowers and my father welcomed his younger son-in-law with a sweet face and put a ring on him and brought him home. When my elder brother came home, I met him and greeted him and introduced him to my family. In the meantime, the wedding parade judge came and dressed him in wedding attire, then I was given a wedding nose ring. My son-in-law and I signed our wedding vows and took them down. When the wedding was over, prayers were offered and then the wedding ulema was given to everyone. When the wedding ceremony was over, they were given food. After everyone finished eating, I had to make my son-in-law and I sit together and make sweet face. That moment was a very difficult time for me. When my father and mother came to make us sweet face, I could no longer control myself at that moment. I lowered my head and started crying. One by one, everyone fed us sweets. Now it was my turn to say goodbye. Father Jacob gave my hand to my son-in-law. At that time, my father cried profusely. I could not take my father's tears. I hugged my father and cried and told my father, "Father, take care of yourself." My mother hugged me and cried and told my mother, "Father, take care of yourself." One by one, everyone in the family started crying. Annoor tried to stop crying and said, "Khanamini, don't go, I can't live without you." Everyone broke down in tears at the moment of goodbye.
My father dropped me in the car and held my sister's hand through the car window and said, "You are not leaving us alone." My brother hugged my sister and said, "Sister, say goodbye to him with a smile." Then he left the car for Assa. I opened the car window. We passed through Dinajpur and after 10 miles, the car braked and everyone had tea. After finishing tea, they left again. In the meantime, I talked to her twice at home. We reached home at around 12 midnight.
After arriving at the house, my mother-in-law welcomed us. I greeted her and entered the house. My maternal uncle's son decorated the house and told my son-in-law that he would not let me enter the house unless I gave him money. My son-in-law let me enter the house with him. We came to the room and took a pic after Asr. Then we freshened up and performed ablution and prayed together. After praying, we went to sleep. We were tired from praying, so we went to sleep. At the beginning of our new life, everyone will pray for us so that our life will be beautifully arranged. Until today, everyone will be well and healthy and pray for us. Allah Hafez ❤️
