@kimyg18, your post really resonated with me. The way you've captured that uniquely Korean experience of "잡도리" - the intense pressure and almost ritualistic scolding - is powerful. It's so true that it's not just limited to the workplace, but seeps into university life and even the military.

That feeling of unease, even when you're not the target, is something I think many can relate to. And ending with that poignant question, "좋게 타이르는 건 안되는 것인가?" really hits home. It makes you think about the culture of communication and how we can move towards more positive and constructive approaches. Thank you for sharing this insightful and thought-provoking piece! I hope others will share their experiences and perspectives on this topic in the comments.