I am glad that Mother had a mini-vacation yesterday by going to my nephew's birthday out of town with my brother and his familysteemCreated with Sketch.

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I really would like to go with my mother along with my brother and my other niece but I am not in the condition to travel because of my handicap and I do not also want to burden them in wheeling me around with my wheelchair because of course I needed to alight from the car and go to my cousin's house and then sit around, talk to people, and embarrass myself when my relatives see me considering that I do not want to expose my appearance and make people there to get upset, pity me and my physical looks and condition, asks questions and all that trouble, I just chose not to go through all that too.

But I am already happy that my Mother will be able to meet my Aunts and relatives in their home province because two of her siblings are already gone and this is one opportunity to make the three of them see each other. I am also glad that my brother had the time to go and use his car to reach the venue of my Nephew to my cousin's birthday celebration in my cousin's home town which will be their first time to go over there because it is a different town where my cousin lives now after her marriage.

My other niece which was the daughter of my sister also decided to come with my mother and my brother because in that way she will be able to meet her relatives in my mother's side of the family. It is a good thing that relatives should always meet because it binds them particularly here in my country where family ties are strong and it is advantageous to each and everyone because relatives is another layer of support particularly if there is a strong bond to each other.

I regret to never been able to establish a strong bond to my relatives although some of them cares but it would have been better if we had been with each other more frequently like living with my relative's home for a number of occasions to again establish a strong bond but that never happened because we basically have no money to spare in order to be with my relatives when at least a family event happens like weddings, birthdays, or whatever general occasion happens.

The social media at least helps in communication especially for our relatives who lives afar and wants to check on how we are doing and all that and if not for this type of technology, we will not be able to communicate through video call or chat message one another almost instantly which is better than wondering how our relatives or family members had been all these years although of course it is much better if we can see each other in person to establish more bonding moments which will help us in many ways more than one particularly when it comes to finding support when we needed it. We do have a family-centered culture as it helps us create a better support group to achieve more success in life but if we grew distant from one another, that family-knit would become loose which will make our lives hard when it come to finding support and this happens all the time, at least with relatives but not with our immediate family members.


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Wow, mangoes are amazing! They're the best fruit; they're delicious and taste so sweet. I'm a huge mango lover, especially when they're fresh from the farms. Wonderful, brother! Best of luck to everyone!

I also like any types of Mangoes because the are all delicious even those that are unripe or small ones that fell off from the tree.

I'm glad you have you mum still up and doing. Thanks for nicely organised post, I'm sure it must must taken some effort to put it all together.

Yes I thank God a million because my mother is still strong and her mind is still clear. It will be hard for me to live without her because I am physically dependent on her.

I like writing because I had been doing this since June of 2017. I am just writing my world and that's it.

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Wow..I'm really grateful to God too. Sometimes I wish humans are immortals so we'll keep seeing our loved ones

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